There are so many memories I have of Bernie...but what I remember most is her smile, laughter, warmth and always being welcome at Beverly Grove with the McGrory clan.
I hadn’t seen Bernie for many years but some of the happiest memories of my childhood are from the times I shared with her: dancing in the bedroom she shared with her sisters to Kim Wilde; riding our bikes in the gully at the back of the house (I still have a scar on my elbow where I fell off); playing football in the grove; laughing our heads off at the dinner table; watching the 1990 World Cup semi-final penalty shoot out (well, dashing up and down from playing in her room to check the score).
I was very privileged to have a childhood friend like Bernie...We shared some milestones together: first day at school; Communion (pretty sure it was Bernie that spilt orange squash on my Communion dress at the breakfast afterwards!! ); Confirmation (where I begged Mum and Dad to let me have Bernadette as my confirmation name) and today, I was very privileged to be there as Bernie made her final journey.
I will never forget Bernadette - my lovely friend - and the happy memories. God bless Bernie, rest well now.
Love always,
Claire x
Claire
27th July 2020
May lovely Bernie rest in peace, and be happy in eternal glory.
Moira
23rd July 2020
Thank you for setting up this tribute to Bernie.
We hope that it will become a space for you and for the friends and family of Bernie, where you can come together to share memories and support each other.
Sent by The National Autistic Society on 22/07/2020